Of all the things I have dealt with in all my time of being a stage manager... last night was a first for me....
I had called actors to their places and began the show, before I even took my headset off, someone taps me on the shoulder.
"Ashley," Nancy says, "Frank is here, and he is drunker than crap."
"Hold on... he's drunk?" He came to dress rehearsal DRUNK!?!?!?
'Scuse my french, but he was p$$ a$$ DRUNK!!!!
So, the first time he grabbed and hugged tightly one of the actresses and telling her that he wanted to spend the weekend with her, etc... EWW!!!!
I got on headset and told the director and he came back real quick to talk to the fumbling, mumbling actor... "I am quite drunk, Oh, I promise I won't do it again" he says...and the director believed him and let it go!!! He's drunk! Aye....
So, the entire greenroom was cleared out, except him, not only was is drunk, but he smelled AWFUL!
Throughout the rehearsal actors came to me to tell me that he was trying to touch and hit on some of the woman actresses, (he even grabbed one of the men! The guy did not like like, and he was gay!) ... so I went on headset and told the director... he didn't say much, and he really did not seem to care. I was like, this guy walked out of the dressing room in a shirt and underwear yelling "Hey, I think I remember this show!"
Holy crap! I HOPE he remembers this show!!!!
Anyway, the director told me to just "see what happens"....
Well, he did not quite crash and burn, which I think we where all secretly hoping for... but he dropped all but 2 lines....good thing he has a very minor walk on role...
So, throughout the night things only got worse.... I tried to stay clear of him... all of us did...
He touched my arm a couple times and I looked at him and said "No, you need to move."
By the end of the night he was crying in the dressing room...
He said some very innapropriate things... everyone was pretty irritated....
What bothered me most....::::: And maybe I'm too sensitive, and maybe I should have kept my mouth shut and not put my nose where it does not belong...nevertheless...
The lead actress has MULTIPLE costume changes and has to change right in the wings. When I came off from changing the set I grabbed the headset to give lights the go cue... well I noticed that he was WATCHING her change... Now, I think there is a difference between seeing and watching....there is a difference between seeing someone change, and watching someone change.... so, since her dressing table and things where no more than 4 feet from mine, I stepped in the way so he could not watch her. Who wants a nasty drunk ooogling them? He said something like, "am I in the way?" and I said "Yes"... when she finsihed dressing, she asked me what that was about... I told her... to my suprise, she told me she did not care, in fact, she said she didn't care if the entire cast watched her change...Woah... okay then... So I said "well, that's not the point, its not right of him to do that, there is a difference between seeing and watching, its the principle" and she said "Well, then apparently we have different principles"...and she continued... so I finally said "You know what, thats
FINE...." And I turned back to my script...And if she would have dropped it there, I probably would not have thought too much of it, but what she said next...she should have just slapped me in the face... One of the actresses walked in and stood next to me, (not a straight one, might I add, but she's really nice, just to make my point)...well, the lead actress looked at me, and then at her and said "Hey, you wanna watch me change?"
THAT was what made me mad... maybe I am being impractical, or putting my nose where it does not belong, or maybe MY morals and principles are wrong... but that right there was wosre than her physically slapping me in the face... I walked off after that... and she knew I was mad. She tried being really nice by telling me how much she appriciated me being the SM.
Tonight is opening night... I hope it goes well....
Undrunk-toosensitive-putshernosewhereitdoesnotbelong-techie